We often say we know that all people are different. We affirm it mentally, perhaps even from a theoretical perspective, but how many of us truly accept this truth with our hearts? Understanding and accepting are two very different things. And this difference is crucial: it separates a life filled with suffering from one filled with harmony.
People are unique Рa phrase that may seem like a clich̩ at first. But if we take a moment to reflect more deeply, we realize how fascinating this truth is. A child is not just the genetic result of their parents; every moment they live is unique. Every breath, every movement, every word they hear during childhood contributes to shaping a perspective on life that is entirely one of a kind.
Even if two people hear the same thing in the same situation, the way that word is perceived differs, because each person carries within them a unique past, a personal context of thoughts and emotions. Moreover, we are born with brains that function differently. Not only are there general differences between feminine and masculine thinking, but also many other patterns that influence how each individual perceives, thinks, and reacts.
Therefore, no one can fully understand what another person thinks or feels. We are limited by our own frame of reference. That’s why it’s so important to accept and respect this diversity. We must remember that every person has the right to be exactly as they are.
Acceptance is a virtue. Not judging others, not trying to mold them to fit our expectations, is a sign of spiritual maturity. Judgment creates separation, but acceptance fosters harmony.
When we choose to truly embrace people’s uniqueness, we uncover the beauty of a world seen through the lens of diversity. Instead of trying to change what we don’t understand, we can learn to admire and respect the miracle of differences that enrich our lives.
These words represent my personal perspective. I invite you to treat them as such, with the openness to view them through your own lens.